All parents want their children to become superhero. At least better than them. Sometimes, they want their children to pursue their own out of reach dreams. In short, parents spend maximum efforts behind own children. And majority of them fail.
That’s where we misunderstand parenting. Parenting is community duty. We should parent, not only our child, but also parent other children in society. Child needs multiple mentors for overall development. You and your family are not sufficient. Mentors are not school teachers. Mother Nature first rank of mentor. Your best friends, maternal uncle/aunt, paternal uncle/aunt, all relative grands and you two – they represent second line of mentors. His/her friends are third. Teachers next.
Think about it. Experiment.